American dating pakistani women
One of my good friends is Pakistani, married to a white guy, her family approves, and is thrilled for her. In either case, do they appear to be 'traditional' in the following of Pakistani culture? Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.
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Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jul 30, 2008 at Hi there Well, I worked with a Pakistani man, and I did get a chance to meet both of his sisters.
I don't think you can group all people from one gender of one country into a single basket, and I don't think you are but, there are some major cultural differences.
And you CANNOT rely on him as a single source, and whether it's hard for you or not, if you want a solid perspective on the Pakistani culture, you must look at critical viewpoints of Pakistan and Islam. So, let's look at this objectively: You're on here, which means you need third-party confirmation whether or not go ahead with this, the relationship seems to be rushed, you don't know much about his culture, and you're much older than him.
We all have a cultural background somewhere, how tightly we stick to it varied from person to person and family to family. Also, are his mother and father immigrants from Pakistan or were they born in Britain as well?
See, biologically speaking, men are attracted to younger women, because younger women tend to be more fertile.
It seems to me that this relationship is moving too fast, if you're already talking about moving to another country and don't know anything about his culture.
Look, I don't know what the age difference is, but I am 26, and I gotta say that I would have qualms about someone who was 28 or 29 for something serious as compared to women who are my age or younger (18 or older).
Ethnicity really doesn't factor in this, and sure, at least one woman on here has told me that younger men and older women can date because it happens a lot the other way around, but that still doesn't change what happens.